The negative influence of homosexuality influences feelings of sexual attraction or romantic desire towards individuals of the same sex. In today’s culture, this topic has become a large point of both discussion and contention as the Biblical-defined standard of sexuality has become subjective to the unredeemed desire of the human heart, as opposed to God’s standard of purity and holiness. According to Scripture, God designed marriage and sexual relationships to occur between man and woman. However, negative influences in this area seek to manifest in confusion in both orientation and behavior, leading individuals into lifestyle patterns that are outside of God’s intended purpose.
Pastoral counseling research indicates that homosexuality has roots in several defining relationship factors, which all create emotional pain as a result of unmet emotional needs toward a person’s sense of identity and ability to be loved. These factors include: (Clinton source)
Male Homosexual behavior is often the result of an absent dad or controlling mother. In this case, the child identifies with their mom while desiring time, identity, affection, and affirmation from their father.
Female homosexual behavior (lesbianism) is often the result of a physically or emotionally absent mom or abuse (verbal, physical, emotional, or sexual) from someone of the opposite sex. In this case, a deep distrust of figures of the opposite sex or a craving for the love and affection of a wounded mother becomes the root of dysfunction.
Sexual curiosity and experimentation during the developmental and adolescent years of life.
From personal experience in ministering to others, I have witnessed the negative influence of homosexuality broken and sexual integrity restored by the power of the Holy Spirit. This happens as the stronghold of homosexuality is broken, which keeps individuals bound to unholy desires that block their true identity in Jesus Christ. Transformation is possible for anyone who struggles in this area by applying the powerful principles of Breakthrough for freedom and emotional healing.
Questions to Ask:
What was childhood like for you? (Describe your relationship with your dad, mom, siblings, friends, and extended family.)
In childhood, did you experience exposure to any of the following? (If so, how?)
Sexual abuse, exposure to pornography, seductions by siblings/friends, molestation, rebellious attitudes?
Rate your commitment level to Jesus as Savior and Lord. (1 – Low; 5 – High)
Are you experiencing internal, emotional, or spiritual conflicts over your homosexual desires?
Do you desire to change them?
Have you chosen to act on your homosexual desires? (If yes, how long has this been occurring?)
To what extent have you shared your struggles with the community around you?
How does your daily life reflect your desires/struggles/weaknesses?
Are there any lies you believe about God’s Word, your identity in Christ, or God’s promises to you that may be influenced by homosexuality?
Connected Influences: Bisexuality, effeminate, lesbianism, habitual masturbation, self-deception, same-sex attraction, exposure, fantasy, lust, fornication, molestation, rape, pedophile, perversion, premarital sex, sexual abuse, uncleanness.
Scriptural Truth:
“That is why God abandoned them to their shameful desires. Even the women turned against the natural way to have sex and instead indulged in sex with each other. 27 And the men, instead of having normal sexual relations with women, burned with lust for each other. Men did shameful things with other men, and as a result of this sin, they suffered within themselves the penalty they deserved.” (Romans 1:26-27)
“Since they thought it foolish to acknowledge God, he abandoned them to their foolish thinking and let them do things that should never be done. 29 Their lives became full of every kind of wickedness, sin, greed, hate, envy, murder, quarreling, deception, malicious behavior, and gossip. 30 They are backstabbers, haters of God, insolent, proud, and boastful. They invent new ways of sinning, and they disobey their parents. 31 They refuse to understand, break their promises, are heartless, and have no mercy. 32 They know God’s justice requires that those who do these things deserve to die, yet they do them anyway. Worse yet, they encourage others to do them, too.” (Romans 1:28-32)
“Don’t you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don’t fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality, 10 or are thieves, or greedy people, or drunkards, or are abusive, or cheat people—none of these will inherit the Kingdom of God.” (1 Corinthians 6:9-10)
“And remember, when you are being tempted, do not say, “God is tempting me.” God is never tempted to do wrong, and he never tempts anyone else. 14 Temptation comes from our own desires, which entice us and drag us away. 15 These desires give birth to sinful actions. And when sin is allowed to grow, it gives birth to death.” (James 1:13-15)
“And don’t forget Sodom and Gomorrah and their neighboring towns, which were filled with immorality and every kind of sexual perversion. Those cities were destroyed by fire and serve as a warning of the eternal fire of God’s judgment. 8 In the same way, these people—who claim authority from their dreams—live immoral lives, defy authority, and scoff at supernatural beings.” (Jude 1:7-8)
How to Pray for Breakthrough from Homosexuality:
You may pray aloud, using each step below:
REALIZE: "Lord, I confess (negative influence) is an area that limits my walk with You. Would You show me the first time I experienced this?"
RELEASE: "Lord, who I need to forgive for influencing this in my life. I choose to forgive (name of person) for (what they did or failed to do). It made me feel (share your emotions with the Lord). I release them from any debt they owe me and repent for judging them. I choose to bless them."
"Lord, do I need to forgive myself for how I responded to this negative influence?”
"Lord, am I holding onto judgment or unmet expectations of You because of this negative influence?"
REPENT & RENOUNCE: "I repent partnering with (negative influence). In the name of Jesus Christ, I renounce my agreement with (negative influence). I choose to hand this to You.”
Lord, I also renounce my agreement with (any connected negative influences).
RECEIVE: "Lord, what do You want to give me in exchange for the negative influence I have given You?"
What truth do You want me to walk in, based on Your Word, Your promises to me, and my identity in Christ?" (Write down and give thanks for the truths that you received from the Lord!)
You can break free from every negative influence present in your life! If you want to go deeper into the spiritual and emotional wholeness that God has for you, check out my book, Encountering Abba’s Heart, or use the purchase link below.
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